Setting the tone -

To be very precise here, I believe that it's important to set a proper tone to what we are hoping to accomplish with this forum. I will offer a few ideas about what this forum is and is NOT meant to be -

It is NOT meant to serve as a place of bashing - exp. online BDSM vs real time BDSM. The topic and challenges themselves are welcome to be discussed, however, this is not meant to be a space for people to declare "one way" or "this or that way is completely invalid".

It IS meant to be a place that respects each person's perspective, experiences and limitations while offering healthy, sane perspectives on BDSM / D/s lifestyle issues.

It is NOT meant to be a place that practices "my kink is better than your kink" so just save that shit right now. There are many aspects of BDSM lifestyle that I have no interest in whatsoever, however, I respect other's rights to exercise those rights with few exceptions. I will not tolerate in any form representations or promotions of underage sex or exploitation. Other activities such as anal sex are considered illegal in many places but I believe have a valid place in lifestyle discussions and will be allowed.

I reserve the right, along with the Admin and moderators to lock or delete comments or posts that are in violation of what we believe are to be solid terms of respectful interaction in offering this service. I am sure there will be times in which our judgement will not be popular. I will seek to clarify and promote understanding and reconciliation where possible however, at the end of the day - I will assert the rights of staff to have the last word.

I encourage you to use this thread to ask questions and clarify the mission of this project if you would like.

Invictus